Monday, April 7, 2008
This is my 5th question!!!!
I have a friend since I was a freshman. Now sha is also an English teacher in a middle school. I thought we shared almost everything together. But sometimes she feel like a stranger; she assumes a prim air. And sometimes she try to hide something;as for me, I've never tried to do those things. Even though we have known each other for almost 20 years, these kinds of her attitude makes me so disappointed. I've almost grown tired of her. If you were in my shoes, what would you do?
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I think you'd better have time to talk heart to heart. My friends and I meet 0ne or two times a year because each of us lives in the different city, but when we are together I feel like we are friends who meet every day. I can't feel any distance between us.
"oldies is goodies"
Let me see.
Is it wonderful you have kept such a long friendship? I know honesty is the best policy especially between friends. But someone may have personal experiences to keep only in one's mind. Sharing sometimes is good, but sometimes terrible. Just accept her behaviour as it is.
but it'll be good to tell her that you feel a little annoyed, because of her clandestine behaviour.
Wow,,,
I totally agree to Yanni's wise advice above.
I find out that you're a direct, sincere and frank person in a month company.
But it hears to me that your friend has a problem that not to talk right now but later.
Just open your mind and wait to be opened.
A friend is a person to be understood, not a person to be transparent each other.
I would talk about it at first. Although it would make you two feel awkward,you would be realised at what you have kept in your mind. I don't think your friendship going for quite a long time is broken up that easily.
Just how about expressing your feeling honestly.
p.s. You know what, Mars? You're my energy bar.^^ Whenever I see you, I share your energy!! Keep smiling, please!
Hi Mars,
I think that I would do as Yanni and Andy suggest and accept that behavior. Sometimes, we have to love our friends even when we don't agree with them...in fact, maybe that shows our truest friends.
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